Good to hear you my friend. That is a great piece you link thank you. These are subtle points, often to do with semantics as we mentioned before. I call it Maya or illusion and am not keen on modern words that make it all sound too techno for this old man. I think it is also important not to give too much weight to concepts. It is amazing how people will murder each otehr to hang on to their own concept and not see that it utter madness. I had one of those Eureka! moments during the whole Covid hysteria when I was puzzling over why people saw things so differently. An inner voice said, Everyone is right from their own point of view. Bingo! Live and let live. We are all looking through different lenses, just as the divine needs us to do. Understanding your Pluto placement is really important in Evolutionary Astrology terms which is a great model. The further you go around the wheel the more light floods in. Advaita is not for you in this life because you are here for another purpose which as you rightly say is for another good exploration of duality. But I would put momey on the fact that at some point you will love it!